"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I was in the club about 2 years ago. I saw a group of girls dancing and I asked one of them to dance. She was spanish and she was hott! she was like NO!!!! really loud, making a scene. I yelled out, Why you up in the club all prude then!! I saw her coming after me after i said that. I don't know what she wanted but i wasn't waiting around to find out. She looked pissed. I went to the mens bathroom for a while "cuz i had to pee honestly" then I went back in. At this time, the spanish girl and her friends were eyeing me. I was sitting down with my boys a little discouraged because of the whole rejection thing. But then something changed. As I saw the spanish girl and her friends laughing at me, It made me think hey, I aint gonna let a couple of bvtches ruin my night so I got up, asked another girl to dance. She said yes, so we dancing, bumpin and grinding against the wall. AWWWW i love that. Im lookin at the spanish girl and her friends just laughing at them. After we danced, me and the girl i danced with got really close. I met some of her friends. We were just chillin. I got her number and I had a good night that night if you know what im sayin :D The bottom line of this story is that after a girl rejects you, they will look at you to see how you're taking it. Be a man. Next her right in her face.


Joecollapoppa playa always.... signing off
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Fellow Don Juans, I'd like to make an announcement. Although he denies all of my threads, Rgeere is my biggest fan.
 
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I'm surprised that hoe didn't hit you in the jaw. :eek:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by joecollapoppa
Fellow Don Juans, I'd like to make an announcement. Although he denies all of my threads, Rgeere is my biggest fan.
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Actually, I have become to see you as sort of an icon.

An icon, sort of in the likes of how geeks are characterized by pocket protectors and nerds with their thick glasses and scientific calculators.

In your case, you are either the guy who gets beat up by girls or the biggest bser that holds the record for most amount of post before getting banned.

Only time will tell, I guess...
 
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This post summed up in two words: Move On.
 
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