"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I was in the club about 2 years ago. I saw a group of girls dancing and I asked one of them to dance. She was spanish and she was hott! she was like NO!!!! really loud, making a scene. I yelled out, Why you up in the club all prude then!! I saw her coming after me after i said that. I don't know what she wanted but i wasn't waiting around to find out. She looked pissed. I went to the mens bathroom for a while "cuz i had to pee honestly" then I went back in. At this time, the spanish girl and her friends were eyeing me. I was sitting down with my boys a little discouraged because of the whole rejection thing. But then something changed. As I saw the spanish girl and her friends laughing at me, It made me think hey, I aint gonna let a couple of bvtches ruin my night so I got up, asked another girl to dance. She said yes, so we dancing, bumpin and grinding against the wall. AWWWW i love that. Im lookin at the spanish girl and her friends just laughing at them. After we danced, me and the girl i danced with got really close. I met some of her friends. We were just chillin. I got her number and I had a good night that night if you know what im sayin :D The bottom line of this story is that after a girl rejects you, they will look at you to see how you're taking it. Be a man. Next her right in her face.


Joecollapoppa playa always.... signing off
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Fellow Don Juans, I'd like to make an announcement. Although he denies all of my threads, Rgeere is my biggest fan.
 
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I'm surprised that hoe didn't hit you in the jaw. :eek:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by joecollapoppa
Fellow Don Juans, I'd like to make an announcement. Although he denies all of my threads, Rgeere is my biggest fan.
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Actually, I have become to see you as sort of an icon.

An icon, sort of in the likes of how geeks are characterized by pocket protectors and nerds with their thick glasses and scientific calculators.

In your case, you are either the guy who gets beat up by girls or the biggest bser that holds the record for most amount of post before getting banned.

Only time will tell, I guess...
 
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This post summed up in two words: Move On.
 
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