"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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jesusrules

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My friend stu says when hes really horny he will go to the mall and go up to hot chicks and say excuse me but I just wanted to say your beautifull. and supposibly the chicks say thanks and he says well I just wanted to let you know. from what he says he gets hotties numbers doing this. I dont hang out with him cause he lives to far away so im not sure if its just bulls*it or what. I have never did this before. So I wanted to know what do you think? would you try this or is it to much of an AFC move?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I guess if you're a really good looking guy you can get away with this, but beautiful women hear that they are beautiful ALL THE TIME, so I unless you are her type, I can't see how it's going to be that effective unless you have mad game to go along with it. Just saying, "Hi I think you're beautiful" isn't going to do much for most guys. Now if you're a Brad Pitt lookalike, then sure, you can say pretty much anything and girls will give you their number.
 

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speakeasy said:
I guess if you're a really good looking guy you can get away with this
Are you living under a cave?

This is basically Direct opener, many use it. It's sort of my defualt opener and it kind of works well with my style because I use a lot of sexual inneundo and C&F while relentlessly kinoing.

But anyway some examples that I've used...
- "Hey you're kind of cute I had to meet you"
- "You're SEXY as ****, I had to meet you"
- "You're cute *Claw* Who are you?"
- "I couldn't leave without saying you're ****ing awesome"

Note - You have to be very congruent with this, as the thread starter friend most likely is because he is horny and just doesn't care. Eye contact, voice, all those stuff have to be correct and the set will fly open. You usually get a SHOCK expression. An be prepared for a bombardment of "Sh!t test".
 
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