"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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jesusrules

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My friend stu says when hes really horny he will go to the mall and go up to hot chicks and say excuse me but I just wanted to say your beautifull. and supposibly the chicks say thanks and he says well I just wanted to let you know. from what he says he gets hotties numbers doing this. I dont hang out with him cause he lives to far away so im not sure if its just bulls*it or what. I have never did this before. So I wanted to know what do you think? would you try this or is it to much of an AFC move?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I guess if you're a really good looking guy you can get away with this, but beautiful women hear that they are beautiful ALL THE TIME, so I unless you are her type, I can't see how it's going to be that effective unless you have mad game to go along with it. Just saying, "Hi I think you're beautiful" isn't going to do much for most guys. Now if you're a Brad Pitt lookalike, then sure, you can say pretty much anything and girls will give you their number.
 

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speakeasy said:
I guess if you're a really good looking guy you can get away with this
Are you living under a cave?

This is basically Direct opener, many use it. It's sort of my defualt opener and it kind of works well with my style because I use a lot of sexual inneundo and C&F while relentlessly kinoing.

But anyway some examples that I've used...
- "Hey you're kind of cute I had to meet you"
- "You're SEXY as ****, I had to meet you"
- "You're cute *Claw* Who are you?"
- "I couldn't leave without saying you're ****ing awesome"

Note - You have to be very congruent with this, as the thread starter friend most likely is because he is horny and just doesn't care. Eye contact, voice, all those stuff have to be correct and the set will fly open. You usually get a SHOCK expression. An be prepared for a bombardment of "Sh!t test".
 
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