"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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jesusrules

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My friend stu says when hes really horny he will go to the mall and go up to hot chicks and say excuse me but I just wanted to say your beautifull. and supposibly the chicks say thanks and he says well I just wanted to let you know. from what he says he gets hotties numbers doing this. I dont hang out with him cause he lives to far away so im not sure if its just bulls*it or what. I have never did this before. So I wanted to know what do you think? would you try this or is it to much of an AFC move?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I guess if you're a really good looking guy you can get away with this, but beautiful women hear that they are beautiful ALL THE TIME, so I unless you are her type, I can't see how it's going to be that effective unless you have mad game to go along with it. Just saying, "Hi I think you're beautiful" isn't going to do much for most guys. Now if you're a Brad Pitt lookalike, then sure, you can say pretty much anything and girls will give you their number.
 

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speakeasy said:
I guess if you're a really good looking guy you can get away with this
Are you living under a cave?

This is basically Direct opener, many use it. It's sort of my defualt opener and it kind of works well with my style because I use a lot of sexual inneundo and C&F while relentlessly kinoing.

But anyway some examples that I've used...
- "Hey you're kind of cute I had to meet you"
- "You're SEXY as ****, I had to meet you"
- "You're cute *Claw* Who are you?"
- "I couldn't leave without saying you're ****ing awesome"

Note - You have to be very congruent with this, as the thread starter friend most likely is because he is horny and just doesn't care. Eye contact, voice, all those stuff have to be correct and the set will fly open. You usually get a SHOCK expression. An be prepared for a bombardment of "Sh!t test".
 
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