"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

A bit of a Social Problem.

T

Taker

Don Juan
Joined
Jan 7, 2006
Messages
54
Reaction score
0
Location
Takeland
This problem would probably turn to be an advantage as I grow but right now, it's a problem. I doubt many people have experienced this.

I tend to socialize with people older than me. Not people 1 or 2 years older, but 20-30 year olds. It's weird I know but I just personally prefer their company, and I can EASILY socialize with them.

But with kids my age I can't STAND most of them. Mainly cause alotta them are jerks. I get along with them and all but I just prefer the company of mellowed out mature people. Unfortunatley this applys to the women as well, I actually catch a few of them glance at me. The fact that I look older than I am probably helps.

Any advice on this? Thanks in advance.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

S

smoove

Don Juan
Joined
Mar 10, 2002
Messages
45
Reaction score
0
So what's the problem exactly? LOL

I'm almost 21 and I know a lot of younger, but mature people (guys & girls). It doesn't bother me.
 
A

Ace of Flames

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 11, 2006
Messages
1,500
Reaction score
16
Location
Everywhere you want to be.... I'm like a Visa card
just grin and bear it. you gotta get with these people anyway. its not exactly the wisest move to go for a 30 year-old.

unless u like MILFS, then i suggest you try your luck. hahaha
 
T

Taker

Don Juan
Joined
Jan 7, 2006
Messages
54
Reaction score
0
Location
Takeland
Well the age gap is much larger in my case. This is prolly cause my bro's 29 and married now, we still do stuff together with our cousins who are 18-19.

Well I think I'll need to be a more popular at school. I'm well known just not really talked about. Being popular at school means I have to be with the jerky/popular guys, and I don't really like them much. Any alternatives?

My clique at the mo only has one popular person, but he's a 'Nice Guy' and fairly trodden on like a door mat (he never says no when people want to borrow money off him). I have a rep of being mean (always charge interest when lending money, good at martial arts, don't take s*** from anyone etc.)
 
0

08aisaac

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 22, 2005
Messages
740
Reaction score
1
Age
36
That's pretty cool.
Well I mean, do what you want. What exactly is the problem?
What do you want? To hang out with kids your age? Easy, get your old friends to bootleg for you, and your young friends will enjoy hanging out with you.
took ten seconds to think that one up, lol.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top