"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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A bit of a Social Problem.

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This problem would probably turn to be an advantage as I grow but right now, it's a problem. I doubt many people have experienced this.

I tend to socialize with people older than me. Not people 1 or 2 years older, but 20-30 year olds. It's weird I know but I just personally prefer their company, and I can EASILY socialize with them.

But with kids my age I can't STAND most of them. Mainly cause alotta them are jerks. I get along with them and all but I just prefer the company of mellowed out mature people. Unfortunatley this applys to the women as well, I actually catch a few of them glance at me. The fact that I look older than I am probably helps.

Any advice on this? Thanks in advance.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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So what's the problem exactly? LOL

I'm almost 21 and I know a lot of younger, but mature people (guys & girls). It doesn't bother me.
 

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just grin and bear it. you gotta get with these people anyway. its not exactly the wisest move to go for a 30 year-old.

unless u like MILFS, then i suggest you try your luck. hahaha
 

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Well the age gap is much larger in my case. This is prolly cause my bro's 29 and married now, we still do stuff together with our cousins who are 18-19.

Well I think I'll need to be a more popular at school. I'm well known just not really talked about. Being popular at school means I have to be with the jerky/popular guys, and I don't really like them much. Any alternatives?

My clique at the mo only has one popular person, but he's a 'Nice Guy' and fairly trodden on like a door mat (he never says no when people want to borrow money off him). I have a rep of being mean (always charge interest when lending money, good at martial arts, don't take s*** from anyone etc.)
 

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That's pretty cool.
Well I mean, do what you want. What exactly is the problem?
What do you want? To hang out with kids your age? Easy, get your old friends to bootleg for you, and your young friends will enjoy hanging out with you.
took ten seconds to think that one up, lol.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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