"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Jakeg123

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I've posted a few simple questions on here before but here is my situation. I've always been social in high school I know everyone and everyone knows me. I've read the bible over and over yet I feel like I'm burdened for already knowing so many people because I'm already "friended" by all of them. I've been told I'm a flirt, so not knowing how to do that isn't an issue. I can't seem to figure out why I'm always being friended. My friends have great game and I try to learn a bit from them, but I still can't seem to get it down. I honestly do better with girls I'll meet that already graduated from the crappy high school environment.

Thank guys
Jake
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Jakeg123

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And lately I've had some crap to deal with when it deals wth family. So I feel like I'm almost becoming a little AFC again and going away from DJ. I start boxing classes Saturday so I'm hoping the new hobby helps on top of heavy lifting.
 

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Start closing. Are you doing basic stuff like touching, eye contact, confidence and so on?
A flirt generally doesn't follow up on girls he flirts with; follow up on them. Close, talk, meet up. Also a flirt might be giving mixed signals
 

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Jakeg123 said:
I've posted a few simple questions on here before but here is my situation. I've always been social in high school I know everyone and everyone knows me. I've read the bible over and over yet I feel like I'm burdened for already knowing so many people because I'm already "friended" by all of them. I've been told I'm a flirt, so not knowing how to do that isn't an issue. I can't seem to figure out why I'm always being friended. My friends have great game and I try to learn a bit from them, but I still can't seem to get it down. I honestly do better with girls I'll meet that already graduated from the crappy high school environment.

Thank guys
Jake
I see no problem here. High school is only the beginning of the rest of your life!
 

Jakeg123

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Ya kino, eye contact, confidence all that stuff. I have a day or a couple hours where I'll be in a ****ty mood which may come off as less confident. I honestly just find it annoying that all I hear about is how hot some of my friends are haha. I'm a good loOking kid(I'm not floating my own boat here) and I put on almost 20 pounds of muscle so I'm not nearly as skinny as I was.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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