"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Jakeg123

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I've posted a few simple questions on here before but here is my situation. I've always been social in high school I know everyone and everyone knows me. I've read the bible over and over yet I feel like I'm burdened for already knowing so many people because I'm already "friended" by all of them. I've been told I'm a flirt, so not knowing how to do that isn't an issue. I can't seem to figure out why I'm always being friended. My friends have great game and I try to learn a bit from them, but I still can't seem to get it down. I honestly do better with girls I'll meet that already graduated from the crappy high school environment.

Thank guys
Jake
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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And lately I've had some crap to deal with when it deals wth family. So I feel like I'm almost becoming a little AFC again and going away from DJ. I start boxing classes Saturday so I'm hoping the new hobby helps on top of heavy lifting.
 

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Start closing. Are you doing basic stuff like touching, eye contact, confidence and so on?
A flirt generally doesn't follow up on girls he flirts with; follow up on them. Close, talk, meet up. Also a flirt might be giving mixed signals
 

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Jakeg123 said:
I've posted a few simple questions on here before but here is my situation. I've always been social in high school I know everyone and everyone knows me. I've read the bible over and over yet I feel like I'm burdened for already knowing so many people because I'm already "friended" by all of them. I've been told I'm a flirt, so not knowing how to do that isn't an issue. I can't seem to figure out why I'm always being friended. My friends have great game and I try to learn a bit from them, but I still can't seem to get it down. I honestly do better with girls I'll meet that already graduated from the crappy high school environment.

Thank guys
Jake
I see no problem here. High school is only the beginning of the rest of your life!
 

Jakeg123

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Ya kino, eye contact, confidence all that stuff. I have a day or a couple hours where I'll be in a ****ty mood which may come off as less confident. I honestly just find it annoying that all I hear about is how hot some of my friends are haha. I'm a good loOking kid(I'm not floating my own boat here) and I put on almost 20 pounds of muscle so I'm not nearly as skinny as I was.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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