“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I've posted a few simple questions on here before but here is my situation. I've always been social in high school I know everyone and everyone knows me. I've read the bible over and over yet I feel like I'm burdened for already knowing so many people because I'm already "friended" by all of them. I've been told I'm a flirt, so not knowing how to do that isn't an issue. I can't seem to figure out why I'm always being friended. My friends have great game and I try to learn a bit from them, but I still can't seem to get it down. I honestly do better with girls I'll meet that already graduated from the crappy high school environment.

Thank guys
Jake
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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And lately I've had some crap to deal with when it deals wth family. So I feel like I'm almost becoming a little AFC again and going away from DJ. I start boxing classes Saturday so I'm hoping the new hobby helps on top of heavy lifting.
 

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Start closing. Are you doing basic stuff like touching, eye contact, confidence and so on?
A flirt generally doesn't follow up on girls he flirts with; follow up on them. Close, talk, meet up. Also a flirt might be giving mixed signals
 

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Jakeg123 said:
I've posted a few simple questions on here before but here is my situation. I've always been social in high school I know everyone and everyone knows me. I've read the bible over and over yet I feel like I'm burdened for already knowing so many people because I'm already "friended" by all of them. I've been told I'm a flirt, so not knowing how to do that isn't an issue. I can't seem to figure out why I'm always being friended. My friends have great game and I try to learn a bit from them, but I still can't seem to get it down. I honestly do better with girls I'll meet that already graduated from the crappy high school environment.

Thank guys
Jake
I see no problem here. High school is only the beginning of the rest of your life!
 

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Ya kino, eye contact, confidence all that stuff. I have a day or a couple hours where I'll be in a ****ty mood which may come off as less confident. I honestly just find it annoying that all I hear about is how hot some of my friends are haha. I'm a good loOking kid(I'm not floating my own boat here) and I put on almost 20 pounds of muscle so I'm not nearly as skinny as I was.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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