xectxny19x
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question for you guys: would you guys mind having a wing who was a bisexual woman? what are the pros/cons to this scenario?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
a bisexual wingwoman?
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Alphamale1821
Senior Don Juan
pro's
she can help with sets
cons
she may take ur set
she can help with sets
cons
she may take ur set
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Daddy The Pimp
Master Don Juan
you might get a threesome 
JackPrescott
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Bad idea. For some reason, I envision her taking away women from you sexually.xectxny19x said:
xectxny19x
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good points. :rock:Gubby said:
as for her taking away a set, isn't the same with a wingman?
Existential
Don Juan
As a guy who has one, I can say that she is easily the best wingperson I have ever had (And I roll with some guys that have remarkable game). We've gone out to pick up girls together a few times. Otherwise, she is content to hold onto me while we walk around and open up sets. You can get away with exponentially more. Not to mention sets always open when you have a woman present.
P.S For those of you joking about her taking your girls...to me, she's no longer a wingperson. By definition a wing is supposed to be helpful. So, unless you are sarging places with a high percentage of bi/lesbian girls (ones who might see your wingwoman as a more viable target then you), this is a laughable scenario...
P.S For those of you joking about her taking your girls...to me, she's no longer a wingperson. By definition a wing is supposed to be helpful. So, unless you are sarging places with a high percentage of bi/lesbian girls (ones who might see your wingwoman as a more viable target then you), this is a laughable scenario...
tsmith2334
Master Don Juan
That's probably just an unwarranted worry 9 times out of 10. The only women that would be attracted to her would at best bi, and therefore harder to game anyway.JackPrescott said:
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.