xectxny19x
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question for you guys: would you guys mind having a wing who was a bisexual woman? what are the pros/cons to this scenario?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
a bisexual wingwoman?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Alphamale1821
Senior Don Juan
pro's
she can help with sets
cons
she may take ur set
she can help with sets
cons
she may take ur set
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Daddy The Pimp
Master Don Juan
you might get a threesome 
JackPrescott
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Bad idea. For some reason, I envision her taking away women from you sexually.xectxny19x said:
xectxny19x
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good points. :rock:Gubby said:
as for her taking away a set, isn't the same with a wingman?
Existential
Don Juan
As a guy who has one, I can say that she is easily the best wingperson I have ever had (And I roll with some guys that have remarkable game). We've gone out to pick up girls together a few times. Otherwise, she is content to hold onto me while we walk around and open up sets. You can get away with exponentially more. Not to mention sets always open when you have a woman present.
P.S For those of you joking about her taking your girls...to me, she's no longer a wingperson. By definition a wing is supposed to be helpful. So, unless you are sarging places with a high percentage of bi/lesbian girls (ones who might see your wingwoman as a more viable target then you), this is a laughable scenario...
P.S For those of you joking about her taking your girls...to me, she's no longer a wingperson. By definition a wing is supposed to be helpful. So, unless you are sarging places with a high percentage of bi/lesbian girls (ones who might see your wingwoman as a more viable target then you), this is a laughable scenario...
tsmith2334
Master Don Juan
That's probably just an unwarranted worry 9 times out of 10. The only women that would be attracted to her would at best bi, and therefore harder to game anyway.JackPrescott said:
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.