xectxny19x
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question for you guys: would you guys mind having a wing who was a bisexual woman? what are the pros/cons to this scenario?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
a bisexual wingwoman?
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Alphamale1821
Senior Don Juan
pro's
she can help with sets
cons
she may take ur set
she can help with sets
cons
she may take ur set
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Daddy The Pimp
Master Don Juan
you might get a threesome 
JackPrescott
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Bad idea. For some reason, I envision her taking away women from you sexually.xectxny19x said:
xectxny19x
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good points. :rock:Gubby said:
as for her taking away a set, isn't the same with a wingman?
Existential
Don Juan
As a guy who has one, I can say that she is easily the best wingperson I have ever had (And I roll with some guys that have remarkable game). We've gone out to pick up girls together a few times. Otherwise, she is content to hold onto me while we walk around and open up sets. You can get away with exponentially more. Not to mention sets always open when you have a woman present.
P.S For those of you joking about her taking your girls...to me, she's no longer a wingperson. By definition a wing is supposed to be helpful. So, unless you are sarging places with a high percentage of bi/lesbian girls (ones who might see your wingwoman as a more viable target then you), this is a laughable scenario...
P.S For those of you joking about her taking your girls...to me, she's no longer a wingperson. By definition a wing is supposed to be helpful. So, unless you are sarging places with a high percentage of bi/lesbian girls (ones who might see your wingwoman as a more viable target then you), this is a laughable scenario...
tsmith2334
Master Don Juan
That's probably just an unwarranted worry 9 times out of 10. The only women that would be attracted to her would at best bi, and therefore harder to game anyway.JackPrescott said:
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.