xectxny19x
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question for you guys: would you guys mind having a wing who was a bisexual woman? what are the pros/cons to this scenario?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
a bisexual wingwoman?
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Alphamale1821
Senior Don Juan
pro's
she can help with sets
cons
she may take ur set
she can help with sets
cons
she may take ur set
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Daddy The Pimp
Master Don Juan
you might get a threesome 
JackPrescott
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Bad idea. For some reason, I envision her taking away women from you sexually.xectxny19x said:
xectxny19x
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good points. :rock:Gubby said:
as for her taking away a set, isn't the same with a wingman?
Existential
Don Juan
As a guy who has one, I can say that she is easily the best wingperson I have ever had (And I roll with some guys that have remarkable game). We've gone out to pick up girls together a few times. Otherwise, she is content to hold onto me while we walk around and open up sets. You can get away with exponentially more. Not to mention sets always open when you have a woman present.
P.S For those of you joking about her taking your girls...to me, she's no longer a wingperson. By definition a wing is supposed to be helpful. So, unless you are sarging places with a high percentage of bi/lesbian girls (ones who might see your wingwoman as a more viable target then you), this is a laughable scenario...
P.S For those of you joking about her taking your girls...to me, she's no longer a wingperson. By definition a wing is supposed to be helpful. So, unless you are sarging places with a high percentage of bi/lesbian girls (ones who might see your wingwoman as a more viable target then you), this is a laughable scenario...
tsmith2334
Master Don Juan
That's probably just an unwarranted worry 9 times out of 10. The only women that would be attracted to her would at best bi, and therefore harder to game anyway.JackPrescott said:
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.