"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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A Big Word Of Warning To All New Dj

Zerotwoonenine

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all you new highschool dj out there, this is a big word of warning, so listen up.
If you are a dedicated person-like me, and you want to become DJ fast, THIS WILL TAKE A TOLL ON YOUR EDUCATION,big time,last year i have invested time and money to become a dj, now i am a senior DJ with no problems with girls, i was a good student untill started DJing, last year i spent so much effort on it that i forgot to study,now i am moving school(to a girl school) and i have to take my year 12 exams again, so guys, if you want to learn how to be a DJ and you are in a crucial year, dont do it yet, wait untill your exams and if the next year is unimportant, do it then.
I know i sound like a geek and i assure you that i am not, i am a guy who just care about his future.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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dannowillbookem

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part of my becoming dj was focusing moer on school and giving less attention to girls. if you give less of a shiit about dating, it comes easier.
 

muzicfreak2k3

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i feel ya man.... im usually a great student and this summer was great for me... im really hoping i can juggle school + a job + sports + girls and an active social life .... damn lol...all while looking for colleges =0
 

TheManlyMan

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dannowillbookem said:
part of my becoming dj was focusing moer on school and giving less attention to girls. if you give less of a shiit about dating, it comes easier.
fvckin QFE
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Zerotwoonenine

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lol.
Yea you have to juggle girls+work+social time, if you want to impress, a important part for a highschool dj is being cool, sociable, clever and get good grades with out been a geek, i have managed to learn all of this in the last year, but it has cost me a very important exam year and i have to re do this year, i am moving to a girl school(lol) with mixed six form, i will work hard there, get good grades and i am already popular with the girls from that school.
Wish me luck guys
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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