"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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A Big Word Of Warning To All New Dj

Zerotwoonenine

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all you new highschool dj out there, this is a big word of warning, so listen up.
If you are a dedicated person-like me, and you want to become DJ fast, THIS WILL TAKE A TOLL ON YOUR EDUCATION,big time,last year i have invested time and money to become a dj, now i am a senior DJ with no problems with girls, i was a good student untill started DJing, last year i spent so much effort on it that i forgot to study,now i am moving school(to a girl school) and i have to take my year 12 exams again, so guys, if you want to learn how to be a DJ and you are in a crucial year, dont do it yet, wait untill your exams and if the next year is unimportant, do it then.
I know i sound like a geek and i assure you that i am not, i am a guy who just care about his future.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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dannowillbookem

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part of my becoming dj was focusing moer on school and giving less attention to girls. if you give less of a shiit about dating, it comes easier.
 

muzicfreak2k3

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i feel ya man.... im usually a great student and this summer was great for me... im really hoping i can juggle school + a job + sports + girls and an active social life .... damn lol...all while looking for colleges =0
 

TheManlyMan

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dannowillbookem said:
part of my becoming dj was focusing moer on school and giving less attention to girls. if you give less of a shiit about dating, it comes easier.
fvckin QFE
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Zerotwoonenine

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lol.
Yea you have to juggle girls+work+social time, if you want to impress, a important part for a highschool dj is being cool, sociable, clever and get good grades with out been a geek, i have managed to learn all of this in the last year, but it has cost me a very important exam year and i have to re do this year, i am moving to a girl school(lol) with mixed six form, i will work hard there, get good grades and i am already popular with the girls from that school.
Wish me luck guys
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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