"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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A Big Word Of Warning To All New Dj

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Zerotwoonenine

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all you new highschool dj out there, this is a big word of warning, so listen up.
If you are a dedicated person-like me, and you want to become DJ fast, THIS WILL TAKE A TOLL ON YOUR EDUCATION,big time,last year i have invested time and money to become a dj, now i am a senior DJ with no problems with girls, i was a good student untill started DJing, last year i spent so much effort on it that i forgot to study,now i am moving school(to a girl school) and i have to take my year 12 exams again, so guys, if you want to learn how to be a DJ and you are in a crucial year, dont do it yet, wait untill your exams and if the next year is unimportant, do it then.
I know i sound like a geek and i assure you that i am not, i am a guy who just care about his future.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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part of my becoming dj was focusing moer on school and giving less attention to girls. if you give less of a shiit about dating, it comes easier.
 
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i feel ya man.... im usually a great student and this summer was great for me... im really hoping i can juggle school + a job + sports + girls and an active social life .... damn lol...all while looking for colleges =0
 
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dannowillbookem said:
part of my becoming dj was focusing moer on school and giving less attention to girls. if you give less of a shiit about dating, it comes easier.
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fvckin QFE
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Zerotwoonenine

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lol.
Yea you have to juggle girls+work+social time, if you want to impress, a important part for a highschool dj is being cool, sociable, clever and get good grades with out been a geek, i have managed to learn all of this in the last year, but it has cost me a very important exam year and i have to re do this year, i am moving to a girl school(lol) with mixed six form, i will work hard there, get good grades and i am already popular with the girls from that school.
Wish me luck guys
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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