"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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A Big Word Of Warning To All New Dj

Zerotwoonenine

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all you new highschool dj out there, this is a big word of warning, so listen up.
If you are a dedicated person-like me, and you want to become DJ fast, THIS WILL TAKE A TOLL ON YOUR EDUCATION,big time,last year i have invested time and money to become a dj, now i am a senior DJ with no problems with girls, i was a good student untill started DJing, last year i spent so much effort on it that i forgot to study,now i am moving school(to a girl school) and i have to take my year 12 exams again, so guys, if you want to learn how to be a DJ and you are in a crucial year, dont do it yet, wait untill your exams and if the next year is unimportant, do it then.
I know i sound like a geek and i assure you that i am not, i am a guy who just care about his future.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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dannowillbookem

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part of my becoming dj was focusing moer on school and giving less attention to girls. if you give less of a shiit about dating, it comes easier.
 

muzicfreak2k3

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i feel ya man.... im usually a great student and this summer was great for me... im really hoping i can juggle school + a job + sports + girls and an active social life .... damn lol...all while looking for colleges =0
 

TheManlyMan

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dannowillbookem said:
part of my becoming dj was focusing moer on school and giving less attention to girls. if you give less of a shiit about dating, it comes easier.
fvckin QFE
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Zerotwoonenine

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lol.
Yea you have to juggle girls+work+social time, if you want to impress, a important part for a highschool dj is being cool, sociable, clever and get good grades with out been a geek, i have managed to learn all of this in the last year, but it has cost me a very important exam year and i have to re do this year, i am moving to a girl school(lol) with mixed six form, i will work hard there, get good grades and i am already popular with the girls from that school.
Wish me luck guys
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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