niceguytoalphamale
Master Don Juan
What's your guys input on a beard? I think they're very manly.. so do some female ''plates''
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
A beard more masculine?
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Stallionstud
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Yeah I can’t grow one. I’m fuxxed. They love beard game
youngprodigy
Don Juan
Ever since I grew one, the quantity of girls decreased while the quality heavily increased
I guess it depends on where you are in world, where I'm in my experience beards are a turn off for quite a few women. I had a cop stache for many years, I shaved it off 6 years ago, I've noticed a difference the way women act around me. I'm not a metrosexual trying to act like a man, I dress like a man and be a man, I have to watch I'm a bit intimidating.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
I think guys should have a good frame before growing one. A boy with a beard, doesn't really work.
I have a super thick, dark, manly beard but it makes me look more like 35-38 instead of 29 and more middle eastern than European (I'm Armenian) so I'm doing more of a 5 o'clock shadow look now
My facial hair grows in so thick and so dark that 10 days of not shaving and it looks like I haven't shaved for 2 months
My facial hair grows in so thick and so dark that 10 days of not shaving and it looks like I haven't shaved for 2 months
My younger brother is like that, doesn't shave in a day he's damn near got a beard, myself I can go 2 weeks without shaving and it only looks like I have a 5 o clock shadow.
PeasantPlayer
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My beard grows in patchy and I have an extremely youthful baby face, makes me look like a pansy.
Beards are trending in popular culture, regardless of my situation I like my face clean shaven and chiseled.
I've seen men cut off their beards and looked pretty bad, why cover up an attractive face? For some beards make the face look more attractive
Beards are trending in popular culture, regardless of my situation I like my face clean shaven and chiseled.
I've seen men cut off their beards and looked pretty bad, why cover up an attractive face? For some beards make the face look more attractive
niceguytoalphamale
Master Don Juan
Yeah I agree I look like a terrorist with a beard
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
niceguytoalphamale
Master Don Juan
I have a huge jaw line
MoreThanSmooth
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They seem to be in fashion for some reason (probably a backlash against metrosexual hipster bs) but I think beards are polarising.
The women who like me with facial hair really like me and the women who don’t like it REALLY don’t like it.
My main problem is that I can’t griw a full facial beard, it only really grows on my neck and lower jawline atm. Got a jaw beard right how but I’m thinking of cutting it off and just having stubble.
The women who like me with facial hair really like me and the women who don’t like it REALLY don’t like it.
My main problem is that I can’t griw a full facial beard, it only really grows on my neck and lower jawline atm. Got a jaw beard right how but I’m thinking of cutting it off and just having stubble.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
youngprodigy
Don Juan
Make sure you don’t grow it too long and don’t grow a neck beard either. My beard is short but it’s full and I trim it weekly. A beard can easily compliment your face and make you look more masculine.