niceguytoalphamale
Master Don Juan
What's your guys input on a beard? I think they're very manly.. so do some female ''plates''
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
My younger brother is like that, doesn't shave in a day he's damn near got a beard, myself I can go 2 weeks without shaving and it only looks like I have a 5 o clock shadow.I have a super thick, dark, manly beard but it makes me look more like 35-38 instead of 29 and more middle eastern than European (I'm Armenian) so I'm doing more of a 5 o'clock shadow look now
My facial hair grows in so thick and so dark that 10 days of not shaving and it looks like I haven't shaved for 2 months
Yeah I agree I look like a terrorist with a beardI have a super thick, dark, manly beard but it makes me look more like 35-38 instead of 29 and more middle eastern than European (I'm Armenian) so I'm doing more of a 5 o'clock shadow look now
My facial hair grows in so thick and so dark that 10 days of not shaving and it looks like I haven't shaved for 2 months
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I have a huge jaw lineBeard is good way to hide your beta jaw line. but im more into not shaving it for couple days. Looks better than couple weeks beard
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.