niceguytoalphamale
Master Don Juan
What's your guys input on a beard? I think they're very manly.. so do some female ''plates''
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
My younger brother is like that, doesn't shave in a day he's damn near got a beard, myself I can go 2 weeks without shaving and it only looks like I have a 5 o clock shadow.I have a super thick, dark, manly beard but it makes me look more like 35-38 instead of 29 and more middle eastern than European (I'm Armenian) so I'm doing more of a 5 o'clock shadow look now
My facial hair grows in so thick and so dark that 10 days of not shaving and it looks like I haven't shaved for 2 months
Yeah I agree I look like a terrorist with a beardI have a super thick, dark, manly beard but it makes me look more like 35-38 instead of 29 and more middle eastern than European (I'm Armenian) so I'm doing more of a 5 o'clock shadow look now
My facial hair grows in so thick and so dark that 10 days of not shaving and it looks like I haven't shaved for 2 months
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I have a huge jaw lineBeard is good way to hide your beta jaw line. but im more into not shaving it for couple days. Looks better than couple weeks beard
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.