"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Gosh, went to a club with some friends (girls including). I noticed I freaking suck at conversating, it's annoying to have short conversations and boring conversation combined. It makes it hard make the girl getting interested and feeling rapport. I also need some humor, I'm a very serious person, it is even hard for me to laugh about many stuff people say.

Someone help me with positive information. Yes, I read the bible but I still suck at conversation. I feel that conversation is the key to my succes, but I find it difficult to improve and I want to improve. Anyone provide me with useful information.



Thanks.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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In order to keep and make interesting conversations, you have to be an interesting person. Try taking yourself less seriously. That's key! Also read humor-material and watch stand-up comedians and see how they engage the crowd.
You don't have to be an entertainer, but boredom is a killer with girls. Never have a girl been seduced by uninspired, boring conversation!

Work on inner-game. Get some "crutches" if you need it(canned material) and try new stuff. Get out of your comfort-zone.

Dunno who had this quote but it's probably one of the best I've ever heard. It made me see things differently and get a new perspective.

"Keep doing what you've always done, and you'll keep getting what you've always gotten"

Good luck
 

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"Keep doing what you've always done, and you'll keep getting what you've always gotten"

Good luck [/B][/QUOTE]

Mystery
 
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