A bad Club exp

[Dude2Stud]

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Gosh, went to a club with some friends (girls including). I noticed I freaking suck at conversating, it's annoying to have short conversations and boring conversation combined. It makes it hard make the girl getting interested and feeling rapport. I also need some humor, I'm a very serious person, it is even hard for me to laugh about many stuff people say.

Someone help me with positive information. Yes, I read the bible but I still suck at conversation. I feel that conversation is the key to my succes, but I find it difficult to improve and I want to improve. Anyone provide me with useful information.



Thanks.

 

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In order to keep and make interesting conversations, you have to be an interesting person. Try taking yourself less seriously. That's key! Also read humor-material and watch stand-up comedians and see how they engage the crowd.
You don't have to be an entertainer, but boredom is a killer with girls. Never have a girl been seduced by uninspired, boring conversation!

Work on inner-game. Get some "crutches" if you need it(canned material) and try new stuff. Get out of your comfort-zone.

Dunno who had this quote but it's probably one of the best I've ever heard. It made me see things differently and get a new perspective.

"Keep doing what you've always done, and you'll keep getting what you've always gotten"

Good luck

 

[psychgrad]

"Keep doing what you've always done, and you'll keep getting what you've always gotten"

Good luck [/B][/QUOTE]

Mystery