"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Gosh, went to a club with some friends (girls including). I noticed I freaking suck at conversating, it's annoying to have short conversations and boring conversation combined. It makes it hard make the girl getting interested and feeling rapport. I also need some humor, I'm a very serious person, it is even hard for me to laugh about many stuff people say.

Someone help me with positive information. Yes, I read the bible but I still suck at conversation. I feel that conversation is the key to my succes, but I find it difficult to improve and I want to improve. Anyone provide me with useful information.



Thanks.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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In order to keep and make interesting conversations, you have to be an interesting person. Try taking yourself less seriously. That's key! Also read humor-material and watch stand-up comedians and see how they engage the crowd.
You don't have to be an entertainer, but boredom is a killer with girls. Never have a girl been seduced by uninspired, boring conversation!

Work on inner-game. Get some "crutches" if you need it(canned material) and try new stuff. Get out of your comfort-zone.

Dunno who had this quote but it's probably one of the best I've ever heard. It made me see things differently and get a new perspective.

"Keep doing what you've always done, and you'll keep getting what you've always gotten"

Good luck
 
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"Keep doing what you've always done, and you'll keep getting what you've always gotten"

Good luck [/B][/QUOTE]

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