"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Gosh, went to a club with some friends (girls including). I noticed I freaking suck at conversating, it's annoying to have short conversations and boring conversation combined. It makes it hard make the girl getting interested and feeling rapport. I also need some humor, I'm a very serious person, it is even hard for me to laugh about many stuff people say.

Someone help me with positive information. Yes, I read the bible but I still suck at conversation. I feel that conversation is the key to my succes, but I find it difficult to improve and I want to improve. Anyone provide me with useful information.



Thanks.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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In order to keep and make interesting conversations, you have to be an interesting person. Try taking yourself less seriously. That's key! Also read humor-material and watch stand-up comedians and see how they engage the crowd.
You don't have to be an entertainer, but boredom is a killer with girls. Never have a girl been seduced by uninspired, boring conversation!

Work on inner-game. Get some "crutches" if you need it(canned material) and try new stuff. Get out of your comfort-zone.

Dunno who had this quote but it's probably one of the best I've ever heard. It made me see things differently and get a new perspective.

"Keep doing what you've always done, and you'll keep getting what you've always gotten"

Good luck
 
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"Keep doing what you've always done, and you'll keep getting what you've always gotten"

Good luck [/B][/QUOTE]

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