stevera004
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Pay off all debts, starting with highest interest rate debt.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
A $10,000 question......
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Re: Re: Re: Re: A $10,000 question......
My business partner and I have millions in real estate debt, but only keep $20-$30k in the bank at any given time to cover monthly payments. If I need more, I borrow it.
Debt gets such a bad rap, and "reserve" accounts get too much credit. I should probably keep this stuff to myself since it would be easy for someone to misunderstand what I say and think that they don't need ANY kind of a safety net. You really need to understand the WHOLE picture in order to make it work.
I was saying that I would not keep the money in a bank account. Only enough to cover monthly expenses. The only way I would keep it in the bank is if I had horrible credit and couldn't borrow for an emergency (you can always borrow money, but thats another story).Originally posted by sifer
I totally agree, nothing is more true than being able to learn, be creative, and leverage your way to wealth and rich in the shortest amount of time.
It's called efficiency. And I am damn sure you are damn good at it as I am STR8UP.
And btw, I did say to keep it in a bank account.You must've missed it.
My business partner and I have millions in real estate debt, but only keep $20-$30k in the bank at any given time to cover monthly payments. If I need more, I borrow it.
Debt gets such a bad rap, and "reserve" accounts get too much credit. I should probably keep this stuff to myself since it would be easy for someone to misunderstand what I say and think that they don't need ANY kind of a safety net. You really need to understand the WHOLE picture in order to make it work.