stevera004
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Pay off all debts, starting with highest interest rate debt.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
A $10,000 question......
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Re: Re: Re: Re: A $10,000 question......
My business partner and I have millions in real estate debt, but only keep $20-$30k in the bank at any given time to cover monthly payments. If I need more, I borrow it.
Debt gets such a bad rap, and "reserve" accounts get too much credit. I should probably keep this stuff to myself since it would be easy for someone to misunderstand what I say and think that they don't need ANY kind of a safety net. You really need to understand the WHOLE picture in order to make it work.
I was saying that I would not keep the money in a bank account. Only enough to cover monthly expenses. The only way I would keep it in the bank is if I had horrible credit and couldn't borrow for an emergency (you can always borrow money, but thats another story).Originally posted by sifer
I totally agree, nothing is more true than being able to learn, be creative, and leverage your way to wealth and rich in the shortest amount of time.
It's called efficiency. And I am damn sure you are damn good at it as I am STR8UP.
And btw, I did say to keep it in a bank account.You must've missed it.
My business partner and I have millions in real estate debt, but only keep $20-$30k in the bank at any given time to cover monthly payments. If I need more, I borrow it.
Debt gets such a bad rap, and "reserve" accounts get too much credit. I should probably keep this stuff to myself since it would be easy for someone to misunderstand what I say and think that they don't need ANY kind of a safety net. You really need to understand the WHOLE picture in order to make it work.