Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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A $10,000 question......

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Re: Re: Re: Re: A $10,000 question......

Originally posted by sifer
I totally agree, nothing is more true than being able to learn, be creative, and leverage your way to wealth and rich in the shortest amount of time.

It's called efficiency. And I am damn sure you are damn good at it as I am STR8UP.

And btw, I did say to keep it in a bank account. :p You must've missed it.
I was saying that I would not keep the money in a bank account. Only enough to cover monthly expenses. The only way I would keep it in the bank is if I had horrible credit and couldn't borrow for an emergency (you can always borrow money, but thats another story).

My business partner and I have millions in real estate debt, but only keep $20-$30k in the bank at any given time to cover monthly payments. If I need more, I borrow it.

Debt gets such a bad rap, and "reserve" accounts get too much credit. I should probably keep this stuff to myself since it would be easy for someone to misunderstand what I say and think that they don't need ANY kind of a safety net. You really need to understand the WHOLE picture in order to make it work.
 
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