"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Hi

How do you ask a girl out that you are really good friends with without ruining the friendship. Theres this girl I like, and we hang around together all the time, and go to the cinema just the two of us. How do I ask her (to be my girlfriend), if she says no, i think it could ruin a perfectly good friendship!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Thanks Shezz, thats kinda what I was thinking! Sounds the right thing to do, can I ask something though, why is it the girl who asks, surely she could be waiting for me to ask her to become 'mutually exclusive'.

thanks for all the help anyway!

Cheers!
 

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Secondly you have to do things that make her want you sexually and not put you into the LJBF zone. Chances are if your already good friends and you don't want to ruin the friendship, your heavy into LJBF zone. You have to start doing things, subtley at first, to make yourself attractive in a sexual sense.
 

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Cheers for that :rock: if any1 els has further advice let me know, i dnt think im in the ljbf zone (yet!), im c&f all the time, so we'll have to wait and see!

let me know any further advice!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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