"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Hi

How do you ask a girl out that you are really good friends with without ruining the friendship. Theres this girl I like, and we hang around together all the time, and go to the cinema just the two of us. How do I ask her (to be my girlfriend), if she says no, i think it could ruin a perfectly good friendship!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Thanks Shezz, thats kinda what I was thinking! Sounds the right thing to do, can I ask something though, why is it the girl who asks, surely she could be waiting for me to ask her to become 'mutually exclusive'.

thanks for all the help anyway!

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Secondly you have to do things that make her want you sexually and not put you into the LJBF zone. Chances are if your already good friends and you don't want to ruin the friendship, your heavy into LJBF zone. You have to start doing things, subtley at first, to make yourself attractive in a sexual sense.
 
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Cheers for that :rock: if any1 els has further advice let me know, i dnt think im in the ljbf zone (yet!), im c&f all the time, so we'll have to wait and see!

let me know any further advice!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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