"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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so after two weeks of trying to meet this chick off POF.com and the back and forth **** i have had to deal with...

we finally got to a date for tommorow... if you guys do not know what I am talking about check out my "experience with plentyoffish" post

anyway she texts me and the convo goes like this

her: what time should I come tommorow?
me: 1pm
her: ok, I'll see what i can do


wouldnt she say something like, "ok see you then", "ok sounds good", etc.etc.?

we have been planning on this time for a few days and now she wants to " see what she can do" ? wtf is this crap
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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You shouldve told her tp forget it right then and there. Oh well what is the date suppose to be?
 
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Well since you HAD to reply to her...

Your last reply should've been "Listen toots. Let's stop all this silly nonsense and do the damn thing!" Now be a good girl and pick out something nice to wear for me.

She doesn't reply or show. Leave it be. DON'T CALL OR TEXT ANYMORE.
 
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i didnt reply ! she said what time and i sed 1pm

she said "well i will see what i can do"

and i didnt awnser her.... should i answer back with what you said?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I dont get what her deal is. If she wants to come and hang then fine... just come ! you know what time I want you to come... it has been discussed multiple times

If you dont want too then dont. Who gives a **** stop talking about it and making it like its such a huge deal ! It is making me want to flake ! the only reason I want to do this now because it has been such a huge buildup I want to get it out of the way already....
 
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being out of the game for 5 years is awful. It was so much easier with a gf... besides the constant *****ing it was just ... "come here at this time" and i would hang out and have sex with her

now i have to start from square 1 dealing with chicks that are half the girl my g/f is all so i can squeeze out a potential flake first date from some chick online !?!

what have i come to?
 
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Call her tomorrow and even if she doesn't answer leave a message saying the below. In a wise assed, not a care in the world POSITIVE confident voice.

"Listen toots. Let's stop all this silly nonsense and do the damn thing." Now you be a good girl and pick out something nice to wear for me."

See if or what she replies with. If it's negative or wishy washy B.S. tell her you've got to go. And leave her a$$ in the wind.
 
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tell her its alright youre going with someone else sounding as least soar as possible, but find someone else too dude
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I've got faith, i think she will show up by at least 2pm.

I bet 10 e-currency on it.
 
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judoguy said:
i didnt reply ! she said what time and i sed 1pm

she said "well i will see what i can do"

and i didnt awnser her.... should i answer back with what you said?
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I would have said, "I can do 3 PM also, or 9 PM, if that works better. I'll be kinda tired at 1 PM." Start jerking her around, that's what you're gonna do when you've got her in bed ain't it?
 
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well she just texted me and said she is on her way so we will see how this goes... wish me luck guys... my first date in about 4 years
 
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