90% chance of flake

[judoguy]

so after two weeks of trying to meet this chick off POF.com and the back and forth **** i have had to deal with...

we finally got to a date for tommorow... if you guys do not know what I am talking about check out my "experience with plentyoffish" post

anyway she texts me and the convo goes like this

her: what time should I come tommorow?
me: 1pm
her: ok, I'll see what i can do


wouldnt she say something like, "ok see you then", "ok sounds good", etc.etc.?

we have been planning on this time for a few days and now she wants to " see what she can do" ? wtf is this crap

 

[Tiguere]

You shouldve told her tp forget it right then and there. Oh well what is the date suppose to be?

 

[Naughty Ninja]

Well since you HAD to reply to her...

Your last reply should've been "Listen toots. Let's stop all this silly nonsense and do the damn thing!" Now be a good girl and pick out something nice to wear for me.

She doesn't reply or show. Leave it be. DON'T CALL OR TEXT ANYMORE.

 

[CrashOverRide]

50/50 man....

 

[judoguy]

i didnt reply ! she said what time and i sed 1pm

she said "well i will see what i can do"

and i didnt awnser her.... should i answer back with what you said?

 

[judoguy]

I dont get what her deal is. If she wants to come and hang then fine... just come ! you know what time I want you to come... it has been discussed multiple times

If you dont want too then dont. Who gives a **** stop talking about it and making it like its such a huge deal ! It is making me want to flake ! the only reason I want to do this now because it has been such a huge buildup I want to get it out of the way already....

 

[judoguy]

being out of the game for 5 years is awful. It was so much easier with a gf... besides the constant *****ing it was just ... "come here at this time" and i would hang out and have sex with her

now i have to start from square 1 dealing with chicks that are half the girl my g/f is all so i can squeeze out a potential flake first date from some chick online !?!

what have i come to?

 

[Naughty Ninja]

Call her tomorrow and even if she doesn't answer leave a message saying the below. In a wise assed, not a care in the world POSITIVE confident voice.

"Listen toots. Let's stop all this silly nonsense and do the damn thing." Now you be a good girl and pick out something nice to wear for me."

See if or what she replies with. If it's negative or wishy washy B.S. tell her you've got to go. And leave her a$$ in the wind.

 

[f283000]

judoguy stop complicating your life brother. Read the 2 strikes rule in my signature as it deals with this situation.

 

[Datpiff]

tell her its alright youre going with someone else sounding as least soar as possible, but find someone else too dude

 

[Ease]

I've got faith, i think she will show up by at least 2pm.

I bet 10 e-currency on it.

 

[Poonani Maker]

i didnt reply ! she said what time and i sed 1pm

she said "well i will see what i can do"

and i didnt awnser her.... should i answer back with what you said?

I would have said, "I can do 3 PM also, or 9 PM, if that works better. I'll be kinda tired at 1 PM." Start jerking her around, that's what you're gonna do when you've got her in bed ain't it?

 

[judoguy]

well she just texted me and said she is on her way so we will see how this goes... wish me luck guys... my first date in about 4 years

 

[judoguy]

wow I just realized how fooking nervous I am...