"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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so after two weeks of trying to meet this chick off POF.com and the back and forth **** i have had to deal with...

we finally got to a date for tommorow... if you guys do not know what I am talking about check out my "experience with plentyoffish" post

anyway she texts me and the convo goes like this

her: what time should I come tommorow?
me: 1pm
her: ok, I'll see what i can do


wouldnt she say something like, "ok see you then", "ok sounds good", etc.etc.?

we have been planning on this time for a few days and now she wants to " see what she can do" ? wtf is this crap
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You shouldve told her tp forget it right then and there. Oh well what is the date suppose to be?
 
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Well since you HAD to reply to her...

Your last reply should've been "Listen toots. Let's stop all this silly nonsense and do the damn thing!" Now be a good girl and pick out something nice to wear for me.

She doesn't reply or show. Leave it be. DON'T CALL OR TEXT ANYMORE.
 
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i didnt reply ! she said what time and i sed 1pm

she said "well i will see what i can do"

and i didnt awnser her.... should i answer back with what you said?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I dont get what her deal is. If she wants to come and hang then fine... just come ! you know what time I want you to come... it has been discussed multiple times

If you dont want too then dont. Who gives a **** stop talking about it and making it like its such a huge deal ! It is making me want to flake ! the only reason I want to do this now because it has been such a huge buildup I want to get it out of the way already....
 
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being out of the game for 5 years is awful. It was so much easier with a gf... besides the constant *****ing it was just ... "come here at this time" and i would hang out and have sex with her

now i have to start from square 1 dealing with chicks that are half the girl my g/f is all so i can squeeze out a potential flake first date from some chick online !?!

what have i come to?
 
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Call her tomorrow and even if she doesn't answer leave a message saying the below. In a wise assed, not a care in the world POSITIVE confident voice.

"Listen toots. Let's stop all this silly nonsense and do the damn thing." Now you be a good girl and pick out something nice to wear for me."

See if or what she replies with. If it's negative or wishy washy B.S. tell her you've got to go. And leave her a$$ in the wind.
 
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tell her its alright youre going with someone else sounding as least soar as possible, but find someone else too dude
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I've got faith, i think she will show up by at least 2pm.

I bet 10 e-currency on it.
 
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judoguy said:
i didnt reply ! she said what time and i sed 1pm

she said "well i will see what i can do"

and i didnt awnser her.... should i answer back with what you said?
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I would have said, "I can do 3 PM also, or 9 PM, if that works better. I'll be kinda tired at 1 PM." Start jerking her around, that's what you're gonna do when you've got her in bed ain't it?
 
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well she just texted me and said she is on her way so we will see how this goes... wish me luck guys... my first date in about 4 years
 
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