"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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7-8's in comaprison to 9's and 10's

danielzxc

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Do you define average as mean or median? Most frequently occuring in the wild, or halfway between best and worst?
I can't see any reason to think the mean and median wouldn't yield the same result here. We arbitrarily set the scale from 0 to 10, so if beauty is normally distributed, we'll find the mean and median will be the same. (In fact, so will the mode.)

The majority of chicks would fall between 4 and 6, and a greater majority, probably like 85%, from 3 to 7. Seriously ugly and seriously good lookng are both rare encounters.

This is taking into account both face and body. However, real results will be slighly skewed from the above because to truly rate a 10 she needs a certain level of height, too. Also, obesity is a big problem in western countries -- among both the beautiful and the ugly -- so many facial 8s find themselves demoted to something like 3s because of their bodies. (Yes, young girls are aware that fat isn't attractive, but results show that they aren't having that much success avoiding stacking it on.)

And yes, I'd go for one of these down-to-earth average girls over an HB10 b1tch any day. The HB10s aren't all b1tchy, but they're usually not particularly interesting either. A lot of above-average-looking girls take advantage of their beauty and just maintain BORING personalities.
Uh, yeah, okay buddy. Just how many 10s have you actually MET? (Not just seen, actually spoken to -- for long enough to be able to guage their personalities?)

Personally, I won't compromise on looks. I don't need a 10 (thank God!), but I've got to find her "hot". Personalities, in my experience, don't really vary all that much. If you're an "in control" kinda guy, YOUR personality should color the relationship a lot more than hers, anyway. So, as long as she isn't unbearable, personality doesn't factor into it that much for me. (Of course, you do get the occasional standout personalities, but they are pretty rare -- 5-10% of the time, maybe, and probably the lower end of that.)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The rating scale is crap...its just an excuse for guys not to approach, or to gloat when they lay one they consider high on the scale.

I propose a binary code sort of system. 0 for undoable, 1 for doable...and thats it. After all, when you 'bust your nut', it feels the frickin same anyway, lol.
 

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Well, I'm saying that you can make five the mean scale if you want. But in my experience, the average girl is actually pretty hot. But we never refer to "HB5s" so making 5 the mean score doesn't make much sense.


hotornot.com does it like you do. If you get a 5, then you're hotter than 50% of the people. But I don't entirely agree with that.
 

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L777 said:
The rating scale is crap...its just an excuse for guys not to approach, or to gloat when they lay one they consider high on the scale.

I propose a binary code sort of system. 0 for undoable, 1 for doable...and thats it. After all, when you 'bust your nut', it feels the frickin same anyway, lol.

i'm with you..but if you are going to use scales, you can't just have 2... because just becuase I would DO you, doesn't mean I want other people to know I did you.. :D you know the girl who isn't necessary a sack of bags, but you aren't going to go out bragging that you did it with her.

i'm not one for scales anymore. it's silly and childish. rating someone on something they have absolutly (well, very little) control over (looks)
 

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maybe
0 for undoable
1 for doable but not braggable
2 for doable and braggable
?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Obsidian said:
maybe
0 for undoable
1 for doable but not braggable
2 for doable and braggable
?
Yea man we should promote this scale, its well better than the old one.
 

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Well, I'm saying that you can make five the mean scale if you want. But in my experience, the average girl is actually pretty hot. But we never refer to "HB5s" so making 5 the mean score doesn't make much sense.
Well you can do whatever you want. I'm simply trying to describe reality. Whether we call the true average woman a 5 or a 3 or a ZZHEL998 doesn't really matter. The objective fact is that such women exist, and most women are not too far away from this average, either above it or below it. That is why breathtakingly beatitful and devastatingly ugly are rare finds.

Does any of this help in picking up? Not really. But so what?
 

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O_O wow you guys really are into this scale sh1t. What happend to f|_|cking hot chicks that you were attracted to telling your buddies about it and going on. Sounds a little extreme just for some pvssy but hey whatever
 
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