"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
65 Things I Learned From Dating
- Thread starter Colossus
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
King of Action
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38. Don’t date women who ask you little about yourself.
45. Undesirable women come in countless flavors and colors. In general, do not date divorced women, single mothers, addicts, women with ANY mental health issues, eating disorders, or abusive pasts.
I learned about this site when I was married to my ex-wife. I took for granted communication in relationships. Fellas make it a must she has interest in you and your life. When I used to have communication time with my ex-wife, she would cut me off and ask for a kiss or it would turn into sex. I thought that was cool being married and she was showing a lot of interest still in me.
Low-and-be-hold, after our divorce my eyes and perspective woke up. The reason she cut me off during communication time like she did because, I realize (it's called Low Emotional Quotient) she has adult stage Attention Deficit Disorder. I didn't see it when I was married, however, I ask her questions now, her answers are way way way off the subject about what I was saying. I kick myself not paying attention to her and then married a woman like that. UGH!!!
logicallefty
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So in other words, don't date women at all and we should all become fags?King of Action said:
I say this in a joking manor Sir, not sarcaticlly.
But this pretty much takes are of all women, at least Western ones. I think many of us are in the same boat as you, I know I am. We found this site at a good time but it would have been better had we found it sooner.
logicallefty
Moderator
So in other words, don't date women at all and we should all become gay?King of Action said:
I say this in a joking manor Sir, not sarcaticlly.
But this pretty much takes are of all women, at least Western ones. I think many of us are in the same boat as you, I know I am. We found this site at a good time but it would have been better had we found it sooner.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.