"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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60 Y/O Canadian man goes to China to find 44 y/o online gf

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Why? I mean... there are so many women here and around the world... the dude spent 11,000 RMB chatting with her online for 11 months on some foreigner/asian dating site. When he suggested they meet, she suddenly 'disappeared' and the site went down. Now he's in Shenzhen wearing a sign and searching for this 'woman'. There are an absolute ton of divorced women walking around here with no man in sight... he could pickup another girl so easily if he wanted to... this is what happens when you get

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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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taiyuu_otoko

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I watched a documentary on Netflix similar to this the other night, called "Love Me."

A bunch of dudes going through this site, then going on some road trip to Ukraine. The doc focused on six dudes (and the girls they were pursuing) and only one guy ended up marrying a girl and bringing her back.

All the other guys got scammed. One dude even spent 10K on emails alone before flying over and finding her Ukrainian wife to be nowhere to be found.

If you had no soul, and wanted to scam people, this would be EASY way to do it.
 

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Dear Love Free,
What a Chump....but at 30 RNB a Mail that's $4 he had so much invested in this Girl,he felt committed...He is not the first to fall for a probably Male Scammer on commission,who catered for his every whim for a dollar a letter...sad thing is that Canada,particularly B.Columbia,is full of beautiful Asian Girls...it must be admitted though he is no Oil Painting...He has really aged badly,as if he were in his Seventies!
 

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Grandad should know better. Come on pups where is the wisdom that comes with age?
 

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Luckily, China's not a very populated country, so he'll have a breeze finding his Asian tart. Bad Granpa wants to tap that $hit at all costs.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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donking

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Sure he could have gone the Ukrainian route, but the man's got yellow fever. Would you rather he picked up a 44 yo twice divorced US woman?
 

Yewki

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LiveFreeX said:
he could pickup another girl so easily if he wanted to... this is what happens when you get

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But dude, you have NO idea how amazing his online chats were with her. She was like the one... for suresy.
 

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Nah ... its all for show, its all EMO.Look Im so special its TRUE(TM) ROMANTIC(TM) LOVE(TM).It's typical omega/beta behavior.Emotional striptease.

Women are lucky because there is ALWAYS a fool out there.
 

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Since grandpa is a westerner he'll be like a celebrity in china. Surely by now he has found a replacement.
 

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If Chinawomen become "stale" at age 27, this one must be moldy ... :crackup:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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