"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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60 Y/O Canadian man goes to China to find 44 y/o online gf

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Why? I mean... there are so many women here and around the world... the dude spent 11,000 RMB chatting with her online for 11 months on some foreigner/asian dating site. When he suggested they meet, she suddenly 'disappeared' and the site went down. Now he's in Shenzhen wearing a sign and searching for this 'woman'. There are an absolute ton of divorced women walking around here with no man in sight... he could pickup another girl so easily if he wanted to... this is what happens when you get

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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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taiyuu_otoko

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I watched a documentary on Netflix similar to this the other night, called "Love Me."

A bunch of dudes going through this site, then going on some road trip to Ukraine. The doc focused on six dudes (and the girls they were pursuing) and only one guy ended up marrying a girl and bringing her back.

All the other guys got scammed. One dude even spent 10K on emails alone before flying over and finding her Ukrainian wife to be nowhere to be found.

If you had no soul, and wanted to scam people, this would be EASY way to do it.
 

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Dear Love Free,
What a Chump....but at 30 RNB a Mail that's $4 he had so much invested in this Girl,he felt committed...He is not the first to fall for a probably Male Scammer on commission,who catered for his every whim for a dollar a letter...sad thing is that Canada,particularly B.Columbia,is full of beautiful Asian Girls...it must be admitted though he is no Oil Painting...He has really aged badly,as if he were in his Seventies!
 

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Grandad should know better. Come on pups where is the wisdom that comes with age?
 

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Luckily, China's not a very populated country, so he'll have a breeze finding his Asian tart. Bad Granpa wants to tap that $hit at all costs.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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donking

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Sure he could have gone the Ukrainian route, but the man's got yellow fever. Would you rather he picked up a 44 yo twice divorced US woman?
 

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LiveFreeX said:
he could pickup another girl so easily if he wanted to... this is what happens when you get

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But dude, you have NO idea how amazing his online chats were with her. She was like the one... for suresy.
 

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Nah ... its all for show, its all EMO.Look Im so special its TRUE(TM) ROMANTIC(TM) LOVE(TM).It's typical omega/beta behavior.Emotional striptease.

Women are lucky because there is ALWAYS a fool out there.
 

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Since grandpa is a westerner he'll be like a celebrity in china. Surely by now he has found a replacement.
 

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If Chinawomen become "stale" at age 27, this one must be moldy ... :crackup:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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