"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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60 Y/O Canadian man goes to China to find 44 y/o online gf

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http://www.echinacities.com/china-m...arches-for-Lost-Online-Girlfriend-in-Shenzhen

Why? I mean... there are so many women here and around the world... the dude spent 11,000 RMB chatting with her online for 11 months on some foreigner/asian dating site. When he suggested they meet, she suddenly 'disappeared' and the site went down. Now he's in Shenzhen wearing a sign and searching for this 'woman'. There are an absolute ton of divorced women walking around here with no man in sight... he could pickup another girl so easily if he wanted to... this is what happens when you get

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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taiyuu_otoko

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I watched a documentary on Netflix similar to this the other night, called "Love Me."

A bunch of dudes going through this site, then going on some road trip to Ukraine. The doc focused on six dudes (and the girls they were pursuing) and only one guy ended up marrying a girl and bringing her back.

All the other guys got scammed. One dude even spent 10K on emails alone before flying over and finding her Ukrainian wife to be nowhere to be found.

If you had no soul, and wanted to scam people, this would be EASY way to do it.
 

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Dear Love Free,
What a Chump....but at 30 RNB a Mail that's $4 he had so much invested in this Girl,he felt committed...He is not the first to fall for a probably Male Scammer on commission,who catered for his every whim for a dollar a letter...sad thing is that Canada,particularly B.Columbia,is full of beautiful Asian Girls...it must be admitted though he is no Oil Painting...He has really aged badly,as if he were in his Seventies!
 

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Grandad should know better. Come on pups where is the wisdom that comes with age?
 

VladPatton

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Luckily, China's not a very populated country, so he'll have a breeze finding his Asian tart. Bad Granpa wants to tap that $hit at all costs.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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donking

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Sure he could have gone the Ukrainian route, but the man's got yellow fever. Would you rather he picked up a 44 yo twice divorced US woman?
 

Yewki

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LiveFreeX said:
he could pickup another girl so easily if he wanted to... this is what happens when you get

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But dude, you have NO idea how amazing his online chats were with her. She was like the one... for suresy.
 

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Nah ... its all for show, its all EMO.Look Im so special its TRUE(TM) ROMANTIC(TM) LOVE(TM).It's typical omega/beta behavior.Emotional striptease.

Women are lucky because there is ALWAYS a fool out there.
 

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Since grandpa is a westerner he'll be like a celebrity in china. Surely by now he has found a replacement.
 

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If Chinawomen become "stale" at age 27, this one must be moldy ... :crackup:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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