"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Chev.Chelios

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nahh some women are 100% impossible to deal with and it's a complete no win situation that has no possible good outcome.

funny how so many guys preach on the subject when they never fell in the trap or even have kids lolol

typical beta white knight garbage, be a man, fight harder, spend 100k in court and never give up wahhh, waste 3 years in court and just brawl it out with a psycho female, and if you don't do that your a coward that deserves to die wahh
ur kids are gonna suffer, wahh
kids are #1 wahh

here's this, how to be a man in the paradigm of patriarchy, do whatever the fvck you want, if people don't follow you or trust in your abilities they can fvck off. a mother has no say in any matters, if she leaves or turns into a psycho it's her problem, the kids getting hurt is her fault. you're not obligated to anyone or anything. simply put, don't give a fvck about any women's kids and walk whenever trouble happens your life will be alot easier.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Are you saying, if you had the chance, you wouldn’t fvck a hot thing after breaking it off w your gal?
It means it's unhealthy for you and for your own sanity for fvcksake. Taking sometime off from any girl after a break up is a way to go to avoid being attracted to the same type of women again. Take sometime off to heal.
 

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Are you saying, if you had the chance, you wouldn’t fvck a hot thing after breaking it off w your gal?
Not valid in a man lolll


If it hit me in the face i would abviously


But would not put myself in a situation this could happens.

I would not pursue someone else right away.
 

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Take the high road and just cut her lose. You’re not attracted so why waste time. Don’t sleep with her friends. That’s just low dude and not Alpha. Makes u look desperate
 

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Things are complicated when you have kids also when you invested thousands on ****. We have investments and all this other bs
Actually, this is where your mind isnt in the right FRAME.

It actually makes it a much easier decision if you had a strong frame and knew the game. You take your half of the investments and start investing in your kid and YOURSELF and the baby mama can take her $350 a month and fend for herself.

Thats the way this works. You should be thinking "I am already in the hole xxx thousands to this ho. Not another dime will I waste on her".
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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OP- Dude you need a reboot as bad as my computer does.

Look @ your posts, slow and careful, you will see what you need to do (and especially, what not to do.)
 
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