"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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6 Things that Make You Irresistable to Women!

Francisco d'Anconia

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ValleyDJing said:
I would also add a 7th item to the list.

7. Develop a hobby/talent. Whether it be playing the drums, basketball, souping up a car, lifting weights...whatever. Do something that gives you an identity and an area of expertise.
What do you think gives guys the most confidence before they hook up with women? What do you think gives guys confidence after they break up? See a pattern here?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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ValleyDJing

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
What do you think gives guys the most confidence before they hook up with women? What do you think gives guys confidence after they break up? See a pattern here?

So are you saying i'm wrong or right?
 

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ChrizZ said:
you can't get rich by working a job.

If your lazy a$$ did some research you would know more.
What do you define as "rich?" I know a few people who worked for decent-paying (60k+) companies their whole lives, got stock options, made sound financial decisions and retired with at least a million in the bank. May not be as glamorous as winning the lottery or hitting it big on Wall Street, but it's the way to financial independence for the average American.

And don't tell me you can't do it... anybody can get financial aid and work their ass off to get through college if they are motivated enough. It's not fun, it's not easy, but it's entirely possible. If you don't have the credentials to get a good job, that's your own damn fault.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Those 6 things are good specifics for DANCE CLUBS/BARS TYPE OF SETTINGS. I seriously doubt it you're gonna pull a$$ by breaking out with your moves right in the middle of the mall or a book store.
 

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Gangster Of Love said:
Those 6 things are good specifics for DANCE CLUBS/BARS TYPE OF SETTINGS. I seriously doubt it you're gonna pull a$$ by breaking out with your moves right in the middle of the mall or a book store.
Being a good dancer gives you much better posture, body movements and rhythm. It's a damn good topic to talk about and a great social proof by itself. Plus you're in constant contact with beautiful women (there's no ugly chick in higher levels - cos people only dance with hot ones and therefore they develop faster) which make you comfortable in interaction with them. Not to mention that the dance clubs are great places to pick up.
 

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Jitterbug said:
Being a good dancer gives you much better posture, body movements and rhythm. It's a damn good topic to talk about and a great social proof by itself. Plus you're in constant contact with beautiful women (there's no ugly chick in higher levels - cos people only dance with hot ones and therefore they develop faster) which make you comfortable in interaction with them. Not to mention that the dance clubs are great places to pick up.
What type of dancing are you talking about?
 

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wolf116 said:
What type of dancing are you talking about?
I do swing, blues, tap, salsa and also dabble in half a dozen of other styles.
 

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Jitterbug said:
I do swing, blues, tap, salsa and also dabble in half a dozen of other styles.
I love swing dancing and it ain't that hard at all. I learned west coast swing in less than two weeks.

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Joe The Homophobe said:
When it all comes down to the NUMBER 1 thing is..CONFIDENCE!
1) you can be muscular yet not have the ballz to approach/not have the calibration to make what you say sound good, what you say matters most. Looking like a young Arnold is not going to make girls ask you out.
2) social proof = confidence, you don't need to know people just start talking to people and there you go, social proof
3) but if you're a puss and can't approach women it only makes you a nerd
4) you can make these up (dhv stories)
5) see above
6) see above
I will agree with you, but did you really need to rip apart my list.

1.) don't worry, I got the ballz to approach
2.) Either way, I got it.
3.) I approach, and am still a nerd.
4.) yeah, true you could make them up, but they won't be nearly as good as the true stories.
5.) Same as a bove
6.) Same as above.

comic_relief
 

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MooseGod said:
What do you define as "rich?" I know a few people who worked for decent-paying (60k+) companies their whole lives, got stock options, made sound financial decisions and retired with at least a million in the bank. May not be as glamorous as winning the lottery or hitting it big on Wall Street, but it's the way to financial independence for the average American.

And don't tell me you can't do it... anybody can get financial aid and work their ass off to get through college if they are motivated enough. It's not fun, it's not easy, but it's entirely possible. If you don't have the credentials to get a good job, that's your own damn fault.

Rock on brother!
 

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I win in all except dancing.
Am working on it!
Clothes I have good sense of style, but no money.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I agree with everything except the dancing part, it's a useful skill in some situations (clubs, etc) for some girls but once you get outside that scene it's not such a big deal. The rest I agree 100%.


DonGorgon said:
Women love what other attractive women love! So try to be seen with 7s 8s and 9s as much as you can... Other women will run to you.
Absolutely true. Women know deep down that basically they are all the same, maybe it's some sort of instinctive knowledge. In any case, if you''re with other women you must have passed their qualifications and therefore you are a catch.
 

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DonGorgon said:
NO MONEY IS NEVER A GOOD THING. EVEN RICH WOMEN WANT MEN WITH MONEY....
Follow my 6 guidelines, you will be rich beyond your wildest dreams.
 

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ValleyDJing said:
I would also add a 7th item to the list.

7. Develop a hobby/talent. Whether it be playing the drums, basketball, souping up a car, lifting weights...whatever. Do something that gives you an identity and an area of expertise.
This is true - initially it won't matter as much but a few hours in and it proves you are interested in *something*, good at *something* and able to commit to *something*, which women find interesting and they also seem to like having other things to try and compete with for your interests.
 

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ValleyDJing said:
I would also add a 7th item to the list.

7. Develop a hobby/talent. Whether it be playing the drums, basketball, souping up a car, lifting weights...whatever. Do something that gives you an identity and an area of expertise.
Yup!

Ever talked to a chick about her ex? She always keeps that connection. "Oh yeah, he was that really skilled basketball player...."

Or, just talk to a chick in general and when you meet up again she makes the connection by your interests?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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