"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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6 reasons to date girls you're not attracted to

BadBoy89

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The OP does have some points, but it collapses when he says “not attracted to”. For the points to make sense, a man HAS to be somewhat attracted to her, want to her sex with her. Otherwise, there is no point.

You are telling me men would rather be with a fat chick on a Friday night than be alone watching the game or reading about WW2 or improving their minds?

I don’t think so.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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For the points to make sense, a man HAS to be somewhat attracted to her, want to her sex with her.
Some level of attraction is necessary.

Men are willing to drop their standards quite far for short term sex. There are plenty of examples of subpar women getting a lot of interest from men.


For a longer term dating relationship, the man needs more attraction.

The article might make sense in dropping from the 7-8 range to the 5-6 range, but at least the 5-6 range is passably attractive.
 

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This sounds good, but I've also always thought that if you go with a certain woman, then all the women around you will define your value based on her.
And if you're actractive, let's say a 7 or 8, and she's a 5, you'll be perceived as a 5 or 6
 
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