"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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6 reasons to date girls you're not attracted to

BadBoy89

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The OP does have some points, but it collapses when he says “not attracted to”. For the points to make sense, a man HAS to be somewhat attracted to her, want to her sex with her. Otherwise, there is no point.

You are telling me men would rather be with a fat chick on a Friday night than be alone watching the game or reading about WW2 or improving their minds?

I don’t think so.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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For the points to make sense, a man HAS to be somewhat attracted to her, want to her sex with her.
Some level of attraction is necessary.

Men are willing to drop their standards quite far for short term sex. There are plenty of examples of subpar women getting a lot of interest from men.


For a longer term dating relationship, the man needs more attraction.

The article might make sense in dropping from the 7-8 range to the 5-6 range, but at least the 5-6 range is passably attractive.
 

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This sounds good, but I've also always thought that if you go with a certain woman, then all the women around you will define your value based on her.
And if you're actractive, let's say a 7 or 8, and she's a 5, you'll be perceived as a 5 or 6
 
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