"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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6 pack abs and girls?

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I'm quite certain (personal observation and have been told by many) most women prefer lean, muscular, in-shape guys vs the doughy, undefined, "big" guy. And yes, abs are a HUGE turn-on for women. Women will check out your ass to look for a trim waist. Don't be afraid to wear some nice fitted jeans and a tighter v-neck t-shirt or similar on your next date. If you have pipes, wear something that shows them off too.

Staying in top physical shape means you take pride in your appearance, feel good about yourself, aren't afraid of hard work and dedication, and have high standards for yourself which translates to every other facet of your life--and women know this, especially the high-quality ones.
damn man you are shredded , and not skinny shredded BIG and shredded
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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About 6 pack abs. Does having one boost your chances with girls?

Would you go for more muscle mass generally or 6 pack abs? Which one should one go for first

I think girls like a 6 pack abs but that most of the time, it's hidden(under your shirt) so I don't really know
I believe a 6 pack really helps as much as having decent size, the best thing would be to have both but its hardly possible for most humans so in such case a flat stomatch a decent size seems to me the best option.

No one likes the strong fat guy as much as no one likes the skinny ripped one.

In my case women really like my arms and delts which are the ones that respond better to training, for some reason my traps get bigger really easily therefore I actually have to avoid any exercise that involves them.

I'm quite certain (personal observation and have been told by many) most women prefer lean, muscular, in-shape guys vs the doughy, undefined, "big" guy. And yes, abs are a HUGE turn-on for women. Women will check out your ass to look for a trim waist. Don't be afraid to wear some nice fitted jeans and a tighter v-neck t-shirt or similar on your next date. If you have pipes, wear something that shows them off too.

Staying in top physical shape means you take pride in your appearance, feel good about yourself, aren't afraid of hard work and dedication, and have high standards for yourself which translates to every other facet of your life--and women know this, especially the high-quality ones.
Really great shape not only for your age but even for a guy in his 20s.

I would appreciate if you PM me your diet and training too, would like to compare it to mine also do you happen to check yout Test leves? in which range are you, probably around 600-800?
 

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About 6 pack abs. Does having one boost your chances with girls?

Would you go for more muscle mass generally or 6 pack abs? Which one should one go for first

I think girls like a 6 pack abs but that most of the time, it's hidden(under your shirt) so I don't really know
I know your ego won't let you believe this but it's irrelevant.
 

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I believe a 6 pack really helps as much as having decent size, the best thing would be to have both but its hardly possible for most humans so in such case a flat stomatch a decent size seems to me the best option.

No one likes the strong fat guy as much as no one likes the skinny ripped one.
At least the skinny ripped guy tends to have a stereotype of having a larger johnson.

In my case women really like my arms and delts which are the ones that respond better to training, for some reason my traps get bigger really easily therefore I actually have to avoid any exercise that involves them.


Really great shape not only for your age but even for a guy in his 20s.

I would appreciate if you PM me your diet and training too, would like to compare it to mine also do you happen to check yout Test leves? in which range are you, probably around 600-800?
Being built is a turn on to babes. Makes them get hot if your their preferred body type. It also shows work ethic and attention to detail.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Yeah as much as a suit makes them think you're a ceo...too bad that they may discover thats not the case.
You'll still look clean in the appropriate environment. And skinnier dudes do "show" more of their cawk since an inch or two isn't buried under fat. Plus skinny guy will have better bloodflow. So that stereotype tends to be more true than not.
 

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"Would you go for more muscle mass generally or 6 pack abs?"

Having to choose, i say 6 pack abs since you can't have a 6 pack without being lean. Being lean means having a lean face and a lean face is much more attractive than the opposite, so yes, girls will notice your 6 pack, just in a different way... and then be happily surprised when they see you naked. Similar to when they figure out that the ordinary looking man, with the ordinary clothes is actually a wealthy self made millionaire by themselves. Huge turn-on.
 

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"Would you go for more muscle mass generally or 6 pack abs?"

Having to choose, i say 6 pack abs since you can't have a 6 pack without being lean. Being lean means having a lean face and a lean face is much more attractive than the opposite, so yes, girls will notice your 6 pack, just in a different way... and then be happily surprised when they see you naked. Similar to when they figure out that the ordinary looking man, with the ordinary clothes is actually a wealthy self made millionaire by themselves. Huge turn-on.
Male strippers and escort would be sized as "skill positions" in sports. So larger nba pt guards, nfl dbacks and wide receivers. Same body size same body fat works well and is attractive in clothing.

5'10" to 6'4" 190 to 225 lbs. 6 to 10% bodyfat. This gets their hormones pumping.
 

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About 6 pack abs. Does having one boost your chances with girls? Would you go for more muscle mass generally or 6 pack abs? Which one should one go for first I think girls like a 6 pack abs but that most of the time, it's hidden(under your shirt) so I don't really know
About 6 pack abs. Does having one boost your chances with girls?

Would you go for more muscle mass generally or 6 pack abs? Which one should one go for first

I think girls like a 6 pack abs but that most of the time, it's hidden(under your shirt) so I don't really know
Helpful. But not neccessary.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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