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damn man you are shredded , and not skinny shredded BIG and shredded
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
6 pack abs and girls?
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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I believe a 6 pack really helps as much as having decent size, the best thing would be to have both but its hardly possible for most humans so in such case a flat stomatch a decent size seems to me the best option.
No one likes the strong fat guy as much as no one likes the skinny ripped one.
In my case women really like my arms and delts which are the ones that respond better to training, for some reason my traps get bigger really easily therefore I actually have to avoid any exercise that involves them.
Really great shape not only for your age but even for a guy in his 20s.
I would appreciate if you PM me your diet and training too, would like to compare it to mine also do you happen to check yout Test leves? in which range are you, probably around 600-800?
lostintime
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I know your ego won't let you believe this but it's irrelevant.
mrgoodstuff
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At least the skinny ripped guy tends to have a stereotype of having a larger johnson.
Being built is a turn on to babes. Makes them get hot if your their preferred body type. It also shows work ethic and attention to detail.
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Yeah as much as a suit makes them think you're a ceo...too bad that they may discover thats not the case.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
mrgoodstuff
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You'll still look clean in the appropriate environment. And skinnier dudes do "show" more of their cawk since an inch or two isn't buried under fat. Plus skinny guy will have better bloodflow. So that stereotype tends to be more true than not.
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"Would you go for more muscle mass generally or 6 pack abs?"
Having to choose, i say 6 pack abs since you can't have a 6 pack without being lean. Being lean means having a lean face and a lean face is much more attractive than the opposite, so yes, girls will notice your 6 pack, just in a different way... and then be happily surprised when they see you naked. Similar to when they figure out that the ordinary looking man, with the ordinary clothes is actually a wealthy self made millionaire by themselves. Huge turn-on.
Having to choose, i say 6 pack abs since you can't have a 6 pack without being lean. Being lean means having a lean face and a lean face is much more attractive than the opposite, so yes, girls will notice your 6 pack, just in a different way... and then be happily surprised when they see you naked. Similar to when they figure out that the ordinary looking man, with the ordinary clothes is actually a wealthy self made millionaire by themselves. Huge turn-on.
mrgoodstuff
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Male strippers and escort would be sized as "skill positions" in sports. So larger nba pt guards, nfl dbacks and wide receivers. Same body size same body fat works well and is attractive in clothing.
5'10" to 6'4" 190 to 225 lbs. 6 to 10% bodyfat. This gets their hormones pumping.
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Being in shape shows your not lazy, have self control and not a glutton. That is attractive.
Hamurabimbi
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Helpful. But not neccessary.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.