"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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6 months to look good in a tux.

theunflushables

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My best friend is getting married in mid May. I'm standing up as his best man and want to look damn good rockin a tux. Right now I'm soft and pudgy but not hugely overweight (5'10 190lbs) I'm planning on hitting the gym at the beginning of the new year. Any specific workouts I should be doing and foods I should be avoiding (already cut the fast food out)? I'm not expecting to be ripped with six pack abs by then, just don't want to be a fat dude in a tux.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Do it for yourself, not just the wedding. However, 6 months is enough time. You can be in great shape if you dedicate a lot of time towards it.
 

blinkwatt101

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6 months won't get you much. I'd work on perfecting your posture if anything.
 

Da Realist

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Six months is a lot of time. I would say start with the Stronglifts 5x5 program if you have access to a gym. If not, there's nothing wrong with interval running, push ups, pull ups, dips, and ab work.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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