"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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6 months to look good in a tux.

theunflushables

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My best friend is getting married in mid May. I'm standing up as his best man and want to look damn good rockin a tux. Right now I'm soft and pudgy but not hugely overweight (5'10 190lbs) I'm planning on hitting the gym at the beginning of the new year. Any specific workouts I should be doing and foods I should be avoiding (already cut the fast food out)? I'm not expecting to be ripped with six pack abs by then, just don't want to be a fat dude in a tux.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Do it for yourself, not just the wedding. However, 6 months is enough time. You can be in great shape if you dedicate a lot of time towards it.
 

blinkwatt101

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6 months won't get you much. I'd work on perfecting your posture if anything.
 

Da Realist

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Six months is a lot of time. I would say start with the Stronglifts 5x5 program if you have access to a gym. If not, there's nothing wrong with interval running, push ups, pull ups, dips, and ab work.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

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