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6 months dating her, no sex and she broke up with me

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When did I say that?
If I approach a woman, she is of quality to me.I am at levels now to whereas I need to get physical with a woman BEFORE even a first date.
I'm not investing money in a woman if she don't invest her body to me first.
I am an apex MODE ONE predator.
Well past alpha sh!t.
And if you are that dude, then going on a date isn't even a REQUIREMENT to smash a chick in the first place.
But that is high level mentality, heights that most of you guys will never get to because of low level thinking and confidence.Nonsense. The idea is to be the exception to her "I don't fuk on the first date" rule...and if she breaks her rule for you, that says less about her, and more about you.
Guys that lack the balls to go mode one are critical mode one.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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update: She messaged me saying "don't beat yourself up, it's life **** happens, just didn't work out" and also she told me that in the begining when i was taking her to the nice restaraunts, giving her gifts freaked her out. She said "you don't even know me but were showering me with all those nice things for no reason". She said you did it so well, that i had a thought it might worked out , thus gave you a chance , but it just didn't happen during such long time.

That's rough to hear, but i mean i was raised that way that i should take a good care of woman i'm dating. Thus, it's pretty much normal to me. In the end damn it, seems like deep down i don't know even how to treat woman in a right way to get them into romantic relationships.
Totally agree with @BlackInGame, that it was all my fault and low competience on what to do with women.

Assuming you aren't some young underage kid , you need to understand:
  • you don't "earn" sex with gifts, and expensive dates. You earn it through making her FEEL turned on by being around you.
  • She wants to feel "valued", not worshipped. She wants you to be worth valuing too For your masculinity, actions, and to a point your value to other people around you.
 

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If he's shorter than average, big muscles won't help too much. Big muscles help for average height guys and taller guys too.
I guess then it's even OVER for FeatherWeightClassOlympicWeightliftingChampionCels
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... or maybe not ...
Following his death, a Japanese woman had claimed that her daughter, Sekai Mori, had been fathered by him, and filed a paternity case at a Turkish court.[24] A DNA test confirmed the paternity claim.[26] Süleymanoğlu also had three daughters by a Turkish woman.[27]
 

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I would consider any activity in which she gets me to ejaculate to be "sex" in this regard. I can dig that some women want to be virginal and don't want to risk pregnancy, etc., but she has to want to see my semen, which is a man's romantic essence.
Well idk sounds sh1tty if only a hj when naked and finishing on tits. Saying this because literally happened to me. Chick with similar age as OP. Im the rebound but she wants to test waters and see.

Got to the point where we were naked and even with alcohol to lower inhibitions at the last minute she yanks my d1ck away saying no sex and only 1 guy (her ex has penetrated her). Just last night completely naked and rubbing d1ck on her lips, just as the tip enters then suddenly she says no and I use LMR tactics of 1 step back then again no and i focus on my phone, she comes back try again same thing so I call it a night saying its late i need to sleep. Spent over an hour naked.

Seems like accepting the L will be easier for me than spending time on her.
And I only met her for drinks once all subsequent times at her home.
 
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@isasda66 "Just last night completely naked and rubbing d1ck on her lips, just as the tip enters then suddenly she says no..."

Gotta apply soap and water to that thing more than once every 6 months
 
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