I just realized I got to change my game up. I just was looking through my phone and realized that Ive had 56 text convos with different girls from PLENTY OF FISH and clubs in the past 2 weeks, and out of all of these, I only have 2 that are solid on my team. All these others I havent met yet, or met and had a decent time with, but didnt go for the sex the first time and they never come back. Lesson learned, be a man and escalate **** the first date and if they aint down, **** them they aint ****. NO MORE DATING
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
56 girls in 2 weeks
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Pilo
Don Juan
That's a very misguiding title son.
VERY! LOLPilo said:That's a very misguiding title son.
Don't scare me like that dude!!!!!!!!! hahaha
Slick Rick-NZ
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Just to point out for you sakes.
I bet you wish you went for it now huh?
You had nothing to loose but you defaulted any way.
Next time you go out go for the win and home run.
56 is alot I fukin bet you could have got atleast 10 fuks easy.
It would be worht it.
Go hard or go home good luck.
Slick..
I bet you wish you went for it now huh?
You had nothing to loose but you defaulted any way.
Next time you go out go for the win and home run.
56 is alot I fukin bet you could have got atleast 10 fuks easy.
It would be worht it.
Go hard or go home good luck.
Slick..
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
So what can I do, I am a tall good looking guy with good car, money, nice place all that kind of stuff, but I dont have much game and I'm a little shy. I get tons of numbers online and at clubs just asking for the number after like 30 seconds of talking, but I dont know how to convert the numbers into sex.
I'm a little scared to call sometime so I've been texting and its been a waste of time. 56 girls, maybe met 9 or so and only had sex with 2. The others I meet, we have a nice date, go for drinks and hang out, but havent escalated much past a kiss on the lips at the end. I want to get results and start getting lays since the girls must think I'm cute.
I'm a little scared to call sometime so I've been texting and its been a waste of time. 56 girls, maybe met 9 or so and only had sex with 2. The others I meet, we have a nice date, go for drinks and hang out, but havent escalated much past a kiss on the lips at the end. I want to get results and start getting lays since the girls must think I'm cute.
maybe realize the reality that if you are going to go for this kind of approach the vast majority will never happen but the high numbers involved means a few will
try look at it this way - you messaged a bunch of girls in a 2 week period and 2 of them had sex with you. thats alright isn't it?
try look at it this way - you messaged a bunch of girls in a 2 week period and 2 of them had sex with you. thats alright isn't it?
Pilo
Don Juan
Dude if you are like you say you are. Just use daytime game. Just go up to a girl and tell her that you think she is very good looking and that you want to get to know her. It takes balls, but with practice comes perfection. Girls love it when you do that. Just be cool, calm and collected. Read into body language and work on improving yours. It takes work but it pays off.
I have the physical stuff down because girls from online dating sites will drive an hour to meet me without really knowing me much, but I **** it up and dont escalate, then they never come back lol. I will try day game and approach tons of women and see what happens.
Jeffst1980
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If you want to pull from a club, you need to start going to venues near your place, and always have an "afterparty" ready. It can even be lame- just your roommates and a 12 pack- but you need a REASON to bring girls back. Once you do that, escalation is a piece of cake.
Don't overthink things, but keep in mind that there is a "rhythm" to escalation; it's not necessarily a smooth, continuous thing. You should alternate between drawing her near and then releasing the tension by pushing her away.
Also, keep in mind that 2 out of 56 isn't necessarily a bad ratio from cold approach interactions.
Don't overthink things, but keep in mind that there is a "rhythm" to escalation; it's not necessarily a smooth, continuous thing. You should alternate between drawing her near and then releasing the tension by pushing her away.
Also, keep in mind that 2 out of 56 isn't necessarily a bad ratio from cold approach interactions.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
BlackMack177
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2 out of 56? wtf bro, that's not bad. And in only 2 weeks too? why are you complaining?
This is a numbers game fella. The nature of the beast is that most girls won't go anywhere. That's fine. You just worry about the ones who do
You are doing better than 95% of the other men out there.
This is a numbers game fella. The nature of the beast is that most girls won't go anywhere. That's fine. You just worry about the ones who do
You are doing better than 95% of the other men out there.