I just realized I got to change my game up. I just was looking through my phone and realized that Ive had 56 text convos with different girls from PLENTY OF FISH and clubs in the past 2 weeks, and out of all of these, I only have 2 that are solid on my team. All these others I havent met yet, or met and had a decent time with, but didnt go for the sex the first time and they never come back. Lesson learned, be a man and escalate **** the first date and if they aint down, **** them they aint ****. NO MORE DATING
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
56 girls in 2 weeks
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Pilo
Don Juan
That's a very misguiding title son.
VERY! LOLPilo said:That's a very misguiding title son.
Don't scare me like that dude!!!!!!!!! hahaha
Slick Rick-NZ
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Just to point out for you sakes.
I bet you wish you went for it now huh?
You had nothing to loose but you defaulted any way.
Next time you go out go for the win and home run.
56 is alot I fukin bet you could have got atleast 10 fuks easy.
It would be worht it.
Go hard or go home good luck.
Slick..
I bet you wish you went for it now huh?
You had nothing to loose but you defaulted any way.
Next time you go out go for the win and home run.
56 is alot I fukin bet you could have got atleast 10 fuks easy.
It would be worht it.
Go hard or go home good luck.
Slick..
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
So what can I do, I am a tall good looking guy with good car, money, nice place all that kind of stuff, but I dont have much game and I'm a little shy. I get tons of numbers online and at clubs just asking for the number after like 30 seconds of talking, but I dont know how to convert the numbers into sex.
I'm a little scared to call sometime so I've been texting and its been a waste of time. 56 girls, maybe met 9 or so and only had sex with 2. The others I meet, we have a nice date, go for drinks and hang out, but havent escalated much past a kiss on the lips at the end. I want to get results and start getting lays since the girls must think I'm cute.
I'm a little scared to call sometime so I've been texting and its been a waste of time. 56 girls, maybe met 9 or so and only had sex with 2. The others I meet, we have a nice date, go for drinks and hang out, but havent escalated much past a kiss on the lips at the end. I want to get results and start getting lays since the girls must think I'm cute.
maybe realize the reality that if you are going to go for this kind of approach the vast majority will never happen but the high numbers involved means a few will
try look at it this way - you messaged a bunch of girls in a 2 week period and 2 of them had sex with you. thats alright isn't it?
try look at it this way - you messaged a bunch of girls in a 2 week period and 2 of them had sex with you. thats alright isn't it?
Pilo
Don Juan
Dude if you are like you say you are. Just use daytime game. Just go up to a girl and tell her that you think she is very good looking and that you want to get to know her. It takes balls, but with practice comes perfection. Girls love it when you do that. Just be cool, calm and collected. Read into body language and work on improving yours. It takes work but it pays off.
I have the physical stuff down because girls from online dating sites will drive an hour to meet me without really knowing me much, but I **** it up and dont escalate, then they never come back lol. I will try day game and approach tons of women and see what happens.
Jeffst1980
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If you want to pull from a club, you need to start going to venues near your place, and always have an "afterparty" ready. It can even be lame- just your roommates and a 12 pack- but you need a REASON to bring girls back. Once you do that, escalation is a piece of cake.
Don't overthink things, but keep in mind that there is a "rhythm" to escalation; it's not necessarily a smooth, continuous thing. You should alternate between drawing her near and then releasing the tension by pushing her away.
Also, keep in mind that 2 out of 56 isn't necessarily a bad ratio from cold approach interactions.
Don't overthink things, but keep in mind that there is a "rhythm" to escalation; it's not necessarily a smooth, continuous thing. You should alternate between drawing her near and then releasing the tension by pushing her away.
Also, keep in mind that 2 out of 56 isn't necessarily a bad ratio from cold approach interactions.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
BlackMack177
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2 out of 56? wtf bro, that's not bad. And in only 2 weeks too? why are you complaining?
This is a numbers game fella. The nature of the beast is that most girls won't go anywhere. That's fine. You just worry about the ones who do
You are doing better than 95% of the other men out there.
This is a numbers game fella. The nature of the beast is that most girls won't go anywhere. That's fine. You just worry about the ones who do
You are doing better than 95% of the other men out there.