I just realized I got to change my game up. I just was looking through my phone and realized that Ive had 56 text convos with different girls from PLENTY OF FISH and clubs in the past 2 weeks, and out of all of these, I only have 2 that are solid on my team. All these others I havent met yet, or met and had a decent time with, but didnt go for the sex the first time and they never come back. Lesson learned, be a man and escalate **** the first date and if they aint down, **** them they aint ****. NO MORE DATING
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
56 girls in 2 weeks
- Thread starter Dman101
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Pilo
Don Juan
That's a very misguiding title son.
VERY! LOLPilo said:That's a very misguiding title son.
Don't scare me like that dude!!!!!!!!! hahaha
Slick Rick-NZ
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Just to point out for you sakes.
I bet you wish you went for it now huh?
You had nothing to loose but you defaulted any way.
Next time you go out go for the win and home run.
56 is alot I fukin bet you could have got atleast 10 fuks easy.
It would be worht it.
Go hard or go home good luck.
Slick..
I bet you wish you went for it now huh?
You had nothing to loose but you defaulted any way.
Next time you go out go for the win and home run.
56 is alot I fukin bet you could have got atleast 10 fuks easy.
It would be worht it.
Go hard or go home good luck.
Slick..
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
So what can I do, I am a tall good looking guy with good car, money, nice place all that kind of stuff, but I dont have much game and I'm a little shy. I get tons of numbers online and at clubs just asking for the number after like 30 seconds of talking, but I dont know how to convert the numbers into sex.
I'm a little scared to call sometime so I've been texting and its been a waste of time. 56 girls, maybe met 9 or so and only had sex with 2. The others I meet, we have a nice date, go for drinks and hang out, but havent escalated much past a kiss on the lips at the end. I want to get results and start getting lays since the girls must think I'm cute.
I'm a little scared to call sometime so I've been texting and its been a waste of time. 56 girls, maybe met 9 or so and only had sex with 2. The others I meet, we have a nice date, go for drinks and hang out, but havent escalated much past a kiss on the lips at the end. I want to get results and start getting lays since the girls must think I'm cute.
maybe realize the reality that if you are going to go for this kind of approach the vast majority will never happen but the high numbers involved means a few will
try look at it this way - you messaged a bunch of girls in a 2 week period and 2 of them had sex with you. thats alright isn't it?
try look at it this way - you messaged a bunch of girls in a 2 week period and 2 of them had sex with you. thats alright isn't it?
Pilo
Don Juan
Dude if you are like you say you are. Just use daytime game. Just go up to a girl and tell her that you think she is very good looking and that you want to get to know her. It takes balls, but with practice comes perfection. Girls love it when you do that. Just be cool, calm and collected. Read into body language and work on improving yours. It takes work but it pays off.
I have the physical stuff down because girls from online dating sites will drive an hour to meet me without really knowing me much, but I **** it up and dont escalate, then they never come back lol. I will try day game and approach tons of women and see what happens.
Jeffst1980
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If you want to pull from a club, you need to start going to venues near your place, and always have an "afterparty" ready. It can even be lame- just your roommates and a 12 pack- but you need a REASON to bring girls back. Once you do that, escalation is a piece of cake.
Don't overthink things, but keep in mind that there is a "rhythm" to escalation; it's not necessarily a smooth, continuous thing. You should alternate between drawing her near and then releasing the tension by pushing her away.
Also, keep in mind that 2 out of 56 isn't necessarily a bad ratio from cold approach interactions.
Don't overthink things, but keep in mind that there is a "rhythm" to escalation; it's not necessarily a smooth, continuous thing. You should alternate between drawing her near and then releasing the tension by pushing her away.
Also, keep in mind that 2 out of 56 isn't necessarily a bad ratio from cold approach interactions.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
BlackMack177
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2 out of 56? wtf bro, that's not bad. And in only 2 weeks too? why are you complaining?
This is a numbers game fella. The nature of the beast is that most girls won't go anywhere. That's fine. You just worry about the ones who do
You are doing better than 95% of the other men out there.
This is a numbers game fella. The nature of the beast is that most girls won't go anywhere. That's fine. You just worry about the ones who do
You are doing better than 95% of the other men out there.